actually if you just be nice to Xer you can get a romantic version of his love too. you dont just gotta be a slut (even if in all mine aside from one i was lmao)
yeah! I got it by just getting a lot of likes and then I believe one particular event gave me the heart without having to let him be dominant. which is kinda funny cause I originally planned to get his heart the other way because I had to restart lol.