Dizsolution is a story-first game and not a simple dating simulator. Think a more modernized and realistic Game of Thrones meets Walking Dead. So, the MC is the primary character and all decisions that direct the storyline are made through the MC, but there 's too much story to be told for it all to be strictly told from the MC's pov, plus I personally find that kind of story telling very 2-dimensional and I prefer a more 3-dimensional approach, which I understand is not the norm and might not be for everyone.
The only thing wrong with your avn is missing of a option to watch or not,you could say fucking is going on in background like other people still exist in background,but give us an option to choose to whether watch that or not,simple enough it will hurt less and still makes sense,no need to show others fucking if it ain't a voyeur, NTR focused avn