You have a bar. Check what options fill the bar and choose only those.Once you've 8/10, go and try to hug her.
Does it have to do with the fact that im doing it through replay? the max I can manage is seven and then im left with only the jean and move closer options.
Have you seen 69 with Sasha?
I did
Then you did pass the mini game. The point is not getting 10/10 bars filled.The point is to let Sasha escape and see that scene where she thanks you.