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Argh I have had this on my mind for awhile and I can't help but talk abt it...SO, I have recently been reading comics and watching videos having to do with a gay couple...and o m g . There is so much fan service, it's more like watching corn then it is reading or watching a gay romance. I am a trans man who is mainly interested in men (I am unlabeled atm) and seeing how much men with men is so seggualized, not to mention the amount of women who seggualize it. For example: I was looking for some comics to read, and while looking I found a comic about a deaf dude and another dude dating, and because I thought it was a cool concept, I ofc read it (oh boy did I regret it.) in the first week of meeting eachother, the guy whos not deaf started getting corny over deaf guys voice. And then a whole bunch of other stuff happens, and they do corny stuff in pretty much every damn chapter, it's just uncomfortable. (the comic is called Sign, pls no one send hate, I am adding the name for if you want to check it out and see what I mean for yourself.) Another example is in the gacha community, I every once in awhile decide to watch a gcmm and I'll see a bl one, and ofc it's over seggualized. I watched one movie and they even do t h a t thing while one guy is drunk...also the maker tries so hard to seem like they aren't doing anything wrong because "oh but I don't want to! you are drunk!!" trying to make the non drunk guy act like the good guy, then boom, they do it anyways. Every single gcmm/glmm they make are just over seggualized, and they aren't even a man...I constantly see other girls commenting on the videos saying weird things like "that's hot", etc. (The youtuber is Gotcha Gatcha Yuri, please only go to their channel if you wanna see more into it.) I could go on so much more but it's 3:00 am rn, I needed to just get that off my chest :))