Answer:
1. There are no updates in patreon when is the next update the last time i checked since this is the last alpha build i think it will take a while before they release the beta version.
2. Same situation to you I've maxed everything even the reputation bar and didn't get any new kin if you were go into the main menu and go to gallery you will see you got all the girls so the next option may be to start again but choose the female scientist then unlock all male scenes and etc. Im using the paid version btw.
Hope this helps you.