I have done all the quests and all the events you describe, anytime I talk to Trey I get the option to take the day off and change. I have done all that stuff and even leveled up a couple of times, but there is nothing to do there anymore, I only have the quest that cannot be completed yet. I will know these areas but don't recall details like the names. I have been across to the south by boat many times - descriptions would be more helpful than word asspciation. Thanks for the quick response.
Yes, it did and I did not use the orb because I was in the throne so I went there on foot, even done it again this morning. But thanks to your help i.e. telling me to read the brief, I have now started the mission. Thanks for ending my frustration, I promise to read more carefully in future, cheers.