I think the idea of a murderous ram being into oneself is a reality most are afraid to admit they're into </3 So good on you for accepting that part of yourself fr.
As for future plans, we don't really have much in mind! Just imagine Jacob skips the second date and then marries you. I think that's a pretty good ending, that's the type of stuff that lulls me to sleep at night!
On the topic of Joss though, he actually uses all pronouns! We probably should've explained that ingame, but the idea was for Joss to be a stand-in for the player base! No matter pronouns and stuff.