I appreciate your ability to have a normal conversation with someone who disagrees with you. That's pretty rare these days, so thanks for that! Kudos to you! :D
(wall of text incoming, pls forgive me)
Regarding your disagreement with the idea that AI is a tool, I wanted to see what you thought about one of Enrayne's previous comments:
"You don't need to learn instruments to make music. You can be a DJ and mix your tapes."
When people started using computers to make, mix and generate music, there was major backlash against it. There were (and still are) many people who believed that if you didn't make sounds with a traditional instrument, it could not be considered music. And to keep the discussion in the visual realm, when photography first became accessible to the masses, the art community was polarized since many believed photography devalued art made by hand with traditional mediums such as paint or charcoal. There was even a similar reaction when digital art (e.g., pixel art, vector graphics, image manipulation) was accessible to the general public. Digital art was considered dishonest to the viewer and something the artist couldn't have made without the use of digital manipulation tools.
I think you would agree that in hindsight, these are ridiculous claims. Alarmist, even. There's very little mainstream music released today that doesn't used digitized assets, digital mixing, et cetera. And photography never devalued hand made art, instead they became separate pursuits with different means and ends. Digital art is one of the cornerstones of my life and has been for years. I can't imagine where I would be if I wasn't able to make art digitally versus painting or sketching on physical medium.
What we're all witnessing right now in regards to AI is referred to as a 'paradigm shift' (please look it up). Historically, something new (an idea, a technology, etc.) comes along and people usually have a problem with it (often rightly so). As people learn more about the questionable thing and/or as the thing evolves and grows, the stigma around it is slowly reduced. No one can 'stop' the thing, so the people who have issues with it either choose to ignore it, tolerate it's existence or they embrace it. All are valid choices. Just like the choice to use these tools.
Anyone can hate all these tools with their raging passion all they want. People can wish these things didn't exist and they can curse the people that use them. But the choice to use any of them, all of them; digital music, digital art, photography and yes, even AI, are all valid choices.
I totally believe AI needs significant regulation. I think there are very deep issues with it that we haven't even scratched the surface of. But is using AI or any of these other tools immoral? Maybe. Unethical? Very possibly. It certainly depends on who you ask. But it's absolutely not inherently wrong or an affront to others.
I hope you do not blame the tools for the choices people make.