Ah yes, so 'there is a child in this game' and 'there are thousands of people in this game' somehow mean 'this game should have realism'. Somehow. Because a world where minotaurs, saytrs, literal magic and transforming golem parasites is totally realistic.
If you wanted realism in your game, go play something with a realistic setting. Don't come onto a fantasy game, with a fantasy setting, and then whine and moan when said fantasy game, which I should repeat has a FANTASY, NONSENSICAL NOT REALISTIC SETTING, doesn't have your precious realism in it. Prove Marat said that this game would be realistic.