this is why i avoid patreon and went straight to subscribestar. although all our characters and 'actors' are over the age of 18, some of them don't look that way. With patreon it's very much a situation of 'if your kenku cross you can have loli and incest all day long cus you make them money' if your not making them money though, they will be overly judgemental. Its why some creators just openly lie about themes in their game to avoid patreon's ban hammer.
disclaimers like everyone is 18, and no characters have blood relations, is good to make patreon feel happy but is not a one hundred percent defense. only being super famous is a real defense. Would like to see them just once apply the same rules to the popular creators
Edit: although I do have a patreon, Its solely there to support me for the cheapest amount possible with none of my material added, that may be another tactic, don't hose the patreon for specific content, just for 'generally support me as an author'
not sure how the sofurry community gets past this, i recken they don't