*spoilers for Ulrich route to those who haven't plaid it*
I don't feel like that's selfish at all. To me he's the only really possible LI, so I obviously SMASHED that no to hell and back. Sorry Tala but I'm really not sorry whatsoever.
And as a gay man the thought of a woman being involved with a man I'm with and therefore being somewhat involved in our relationship is obviously a gigantic "no", so I'm really glad we actually got to choose. When that came up I was already worried we were going to have to be in an open relationship; but as it's IF I'm glad we weren't forced on that one point since it would have definitely made me drop it and would seem counter-intuitive to the whole interactive and choices-based aspect.