Why conflate two entirely different things? Oh, right - because you're a fragile little pussy that can't tolerate other people's kinks because reeeee!! (and probably call other people snowflakes, etc.).
Here's some reality for you: Netorare and Netorase stories can both have Romance tags. Tags exist because there is some content relating to the topic and a story can have multiple elements even if YOU feel they don't belong together. 100% you probably beat it to rape and tropey harem OP MC shit.