Thank you so much for the feedback! I'm definitely walking a fine line with the jealousy dialogue, especially early on, as you point out. I do want people who activate that option as soon as it's available to see immediate results, but it sounds like I may have gone too hard too fast. I'll make a note to take a second look at the early stuff. I'm glad to hear that it works well later on.
On stuff like a mismatch between jealousy dialogue and forms of address, I think I want to leave that in the hands of the player. If someone wants to be a dom that doesn't actually get respect, I'm fine enabling that, even if it's a bit awkward from time to time.