It seemed there was another moment where someone referred to me as a "dude" but I'm not 100% sure. I will check it when I replay the game)
Oh, I'm sorry) I might have misunderstood that moment). You're right that "dude" actually can be used for both males and females.
Also I'm not sure if in this conversation with Thane, Quill and Arshem it was a bug that Thane used "them" when talking about my MC, since she is female with female pronouns. But maybe by "them" Thane meant MC and Quill. I'm really not sure if it's a bug. Sorry if I'm bothering you for nothing.
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It refers to the mc, I admit sometimes there are a few sentences that uses them/they instead as I feel it fits the vibe better and can be used but I can see why it may seem like a bug so thanks! ^ ^