give her flowers till she talks.
Then go to golden flower (the sleepy golden cat in brambleclan’s herbal garden) and talk to her until she stops saying new things.
Then go back to sparrow tail and talk to her.
Then go to golden flower and talk to her.
And then go and talk to her kit. (He’s outside the leaders den in bramble clan)
then go to sparrow tail and talk.
Get out of then Den and re-enter.
If she is not there wander around until you see her talking to two cats.
Talk to her and those two cats.
Sorry if this was hard to read and or incorrect. I haven’t played this in a while