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I think so, I don't use Patreon, but I think it is a thing people maybe check every other day once, or if they have a specific reason to write a comment. But Discord is a real time chat, so everything is a bit more fluid and people tend to be more active - at least the ones who want to be. And you having 150+ active patreons is already quite a decent following, compared to even some Discord servers I have seen.

It's mostly about having a space to get people/fans together. You have a much shorter feedback loop, and it's easier to bounce around ideas, too. I can mod it too if  you want, I've been modding a bunch of uh, adult, servers and subreddits for years now.

This is soo good! The quality & attention to detail blows any other adult game out of the water! Have you thought about creating a Discord server?