It doesn’t give me the option to do that, I’m at the part where you have to wait for him to stalk you two times, the first time worked nominally but the second one doesn’t appear.
So, there is a bug happening with Rhot that when you try to get him to visit you the second night of you resting in the shrine he does not come. I kept sleeping in the shrine for over 50+ days and he didn't show up. (I think it's his first heart quest thing)
