So your gonna be mad, but you have to die to her
twice at different points in the game btw, so when it feels impossible that's because it is
oh and one last thing, I'm not a hundred percent on this, but for the second event to trigger you have to die to a rakghoul in corusant, that you find in an event then go back to corusant back to the ship and then the second event plays
its stupid but thats how it is