It's always baffled me that the most demanding people are never the ones actually contributing to artists' Patreons. If you really care that much then at least throw a few bucks a month at them. Otherwise learn some damn patience.
The people who actually matter totally understand and are more than willing to give you the time and space you need to do your best work. I know it's hard when you're being bombarded with idiocy, but try not to let it affect you too much. You're doing amazing and every update is better than the last. ❤️