I am on the server and I have to say that I don't recognize any of that you're complaining about. I'm pretty sure that there's more to it if you get kicked out, it doesn't happen that easily unless you behave really badly and still you get warnings before that.
It's so rare for myself to get so heavily immersed into the storylines so I was really surprised to find myself hooked right from the intriguing beginning and now I'm sad that I reached the end of the current build ;w;
This is done so beautifully, I'm touched and even had a couple tears.