windows defender prevented me from using the setup so like um is this game secure is what i'm asking
Well, I'm not a certified developer, that's why the warning comes up (I'd have to buy an expensive license); I'm very sorry about that. But I can assure you, I'm not doing anything nasty with your computer :P
Unity is a very popular engine, and I think if I were a hacker I certainly wouldn't chose Unity as my tool of choice :'D