I honestly am loving the game so far, the only thing for me is I wish there was more opportunity to be a pure top, I don't mind the possibility of getting dominated myself but it would be amazing if as long as I played well enough I could top anyone who could top me. 

Also it seems really odd to me that the werewolf can dominate you after the encounter because of your scent or how strong you are, after you've already beaten them...like I just proved that I can totally dominate that werewolf, how is it that they all of the sudden can overpower me after and dominate me? I feel like I should have the power to decide in that situation, I did just win after all. 

Besides that fantastic game! I can only hope that someday ill be able to get through the whole thing being the one on top if I'm good enough, that would perfect the experience for me.

Well, the idea of a battle in ToA seems to be that the enemy decides when to stop the battle. Some enemies, like Brigand, would fight until they're too beaten to move, but others, like Dark Knight, will just decide it's enough trouble for them and just admit defeat.

Wereslut seems to be very strong, but simply not interested in fighting for long. You know, animals almost never fight at their full power, because it is a waste of energy.

So the game wants to say that this beast is so magically strong that if she really wants to catch you and force, she will. But she isn't interested if you're not a strong mate, or an experienced one, or look like a proper wolf. Which makes her one of the easiest to fend off. Plus you're a bit off guard.

When you defeat enemies, it usually does a good job of telling you that you didnt knock them out, they are unwilling to keep fighting, they back off... some enemies that you dominate for that matter are the bandit, harpie or the slime; to name a few.

Another example of enemie you dont just beat are the centaur, they let you take control but it's out of respect after letting you join their camp. Btw, i also feel like the wereslut can game over with little counterplay if you do something repeatedly, but that's the kind of enemy she is, you have to beat her avoiding the game overs, that's why she's so weak.