I like some aspects of this game, such as the lore and the fact that you're a refugee from a town that was destroyed by abominations. You're not a hero, just someone trying to survive.

Anyone has recommendations for similar titles to this one? it doesn't need to have sex in them or anything but if it does thats a +,  i just want something with a female protagonist.

Elden Ring starting with female main character?

Black Souls series, Fear and Hunger series, Abaddon Princess of Decay.

Stoneshard, try it. In the Prologue you play as your grandfather, and then you can choose a Female Mage. The game is a cool mercenary simulator. Inventory is limited in volume. You need to carry with you not only food, but also medicine. there is a complex system of injuries.