I'm mainly lost with both of them, as I'm at the fire raid and it isn't allowing me to use the anvil and Varea I'm just unsure of progressing as I've tried searching for answers but can't find any, I will try again and post an update if I do find it but the Whetsone I'm mainly confused on 

I've started Varea quest to becoming queen but I'm still lost on Whetsone as I have the stone and the weapon needed