Heyo, on discord i'm death but i just use another nick here  because why not.
anyway, i had a few suggestions to suggest that I feel will still match with ya game.

The first suggestion is keyboard related, i want to suggest a option in the settings that will change the combat keys from lots of keys all over the keyboard to just using W to move up the list, and S to move down and either Z, X or Spacebar to use the selected skill. It might slow down combat just a bit, but it would allow one to play one handed for reasons we can all imagine.
(I would also suggest having it so your selection stays on what you press if your stance doesn't change, like leaving it on choke after using it or grapple, instead of resetting to the top after being pressed).

The next suggestion is more ways to dominate enemies from different stances. For now the only example i could think of is moving to lewd actions while in defensive stance. However, i'm not suggesting that be a thing as you start the game, but a skill you can learn from urka, maybe you could learn more skills like standing 69 after being in a certain stance while lowering the enemy stamina and getting them in a certain stance.

I forgot my last suggestion, which is just a wait button, sometimes its really difficult to get enemies so they are on their hands and knees and i don't want to attack them, and doing anything else would change my stance or burn mana, withdrawl moves me away which wastes my turn and i could do combat heal, but once again that uses mana i could use later. while it's not a big deal it would just be nice to have a wait or watch button in balanced/combat stance and be ready to 'pounce' when they are in the perfect position.