For some reason I cant bring outside because she doesn’t have shoes and stockings, but when I buy shoes and stocking it doesn’t appear in the equipment menu and I can’t put it on her? Most of her body parts and are just default skin with one of her part being Hypercamo, and her other part being red, they are ether used nor heavily used, does this effect it?

(Sorry for the English, I use google translator) Things like shoes and stockings are packaged in a separate list of items.If the package is purchased, the list will appear among other item selection options. 

You can check the cabinget and there should be a "package" menu