Im confused on how to get to the second Astoria quest? The one after you find the book, I’ve done both male and female character and can’t seem to get it 

Must be male straight and be good on dada.  Got the forest quest , and the potions but nothings happends after that.  Except malfoy raping her in december.

She ask for an appoinment and that day conflics with another mayor event , no matter what you must meet her.