Thank you for this. I see the care and intent. Ritual is a beautiful way to approach conversations, with care and kindness. It makes the exchange more sacred and tender, even if you honor your transman totally differently. The directions are a framework, easily adaptable. We had a lovely discussion after reading this and asking him about gifts he'd prefer was pretty deep and useful for me, and good for him to have a chance to speak and be heard. Conversations are so important, no matter how much you think you know your partner, checking in is good. For us it's been almost 9 years. Thank you for caring about your fellow transmen and creating this. It is the sweetest gift.