Same, would have been nice to be notified or something so that I could change what needed to be changed, still not sure why my game didn't make it, but oh well, I'm guessing mine didn't make it since unless you read the description its hard to tell that it is indeed a gay game but who knows, never got told why, :o
Either that or it was because it took forever for itch.io to get my stuff indexed, literally got indexed a little before the submission so maybe only indexed projects were allowed?