I'm happy you could connect with the game so personally.
That feeling of "I don't hate you, I just want you to see what you're doing to yourself" is something I didnt think much about while making the game but it is so true in situations like this. It's hard to imagine that a real person could feel and act in such a way. It's almost as if something that isn't them is in control of their actions. You don't want to blame them, but who else could be responsible for what they're doing?