I can accept NTR content. I just hate when the girl is cheating on the guy with no thought about it whatsoever, but then throughout the story, the guy has multiple chances to cheat but refuses to stay loyal. It's even worse when you have to play as the said guy and you know what's happening, but he doesn't. What I'm trying to say is I can accept NTR content when both parties are getting action in some way that isn't one person is happy and one person is humiliated.
NTR isn't cheating per say, it's more like forcing into the opposite sex to not give any control of the situation until they can't do anything but agreed to obey the person forcing in so, i agree totally that it wouldn't be fair to place ourselves in this situation or to be in the skin of the person who is doing the action.