Hey [Bob],
I just wanted to let you know that I totally get what you’re going through. Creating an FVN (visual novel) is no easy task, especially when you're juggling everyday life and personal expectations. It's already amazing that you took the initiative to start this project.
Don't put yourself down by calling yourself an amateur or saying you're not talented enough. Every artist, developer, and creator starts somewhere, and the fact that you're working on this, even at your own pace, is something to be proud of. Criticism and suggestions can sometimes be discouraging, especially when you don't have the time or resources to address them the way you'd like to.
Regarding the irregular updates, know that your true supporters understand that life can sometimes get in the way. Mental health and personal well-being are far more important than any project, and it's essential to find a healthy balance.
Take the time you need to work on the FVN, without pressure. Your real fans will be there, no matter how long it takes. The fact that you continue to move forward, even slowly, shows your determination and passion.
Don't lose hope and remember that you're not alone. Many people go through moments of doubt and frustration with their creative projects. You have all my support, and I'm excited to see what you accomplish, no matter how long it takes.
Stay strong and take care of yourself!