"i hope there will be romance and maybe marriage that can be conditional like apart of a certain class or reached a certain level or done a certain quest and maybe a dating system "
I was thinking in adding that but it takes a lot of work so I gave up on it, I will try someday to implement it so that you can marry someone and if they are in nobility you need to do reputation and maybe get a dowry as a bonus, etc.
" the button pressing thing can be annoying every time so i think basic spells shouldn't require it at all or at least have something like an item that can disable it or maybe have a skill use spell system where if you use a spell a certain amount of times that you dont have to do it anymore but you have to master it and for the needs could you have some sort of skill tree for them and battle skills"
You can always turn this on/off if you go misscalenious or chose at start