I bring up the legality because most the time its the main point people who disagree bring up. I've seen on both sides of the spectrum what actual pedos cause and the insane way their brain operates. I don't believe a lot of the people in "this" community are of the type and id like to believe that everyone who place these games can keep it as a fetish-type of thing and never turn to real kids. I look here because I gained a preference for hentai at a young age and have had a preference for more petite body types. If you know much about hentai you'll know that, outside of loli, its borderline impossible to find. That's my personal reason of course... I am in an online forum that talks about lolis as well, In there its extremely well noted that real kids are to NEVER EVER be in consideration because there are people who might bridge the gap. For some people its easy and I fear that. Most of us moral people don't have trouble understanding that hurting real people is very much different than looking at a drawing. I do see where you could make the connections though.
PS: Sorry for the idiot comment, that was unnecessary when you were being logical, and trying to have a genuine, constructive argument.