Where should i put the incest patch? I can't find the /gam folder
I think the game is well-rounded without patches of this kind, unlike some other AVNs that basically require it. On Windows the "game" folder should be easy to find, on Mac it's a bit more intricate and on Android probably not even possible.
This comment section is just for vanilla OILAT problems, you can't really expect support for a patch you downloaded from somewhere else. Try asking those who made the patch in the first place!