Not sure I understand what you mean..
Think he means, if you are the Dominant one, the one doing the moving and initiated the act, you gain, win, or not lose whatever it is that causes a negative effect. Idk, I haven't played the game. Just thought I'd elaborate. Maybe make it so you can "resist" or "fight back" if the girl initiates the act, so that you can end up as the dominant one. Or, whatever. I can't tell if you're a guy or a girl MC.