Hi ! Sorry for not responding earlier ich is not always the best at showing us notification.
Framing the action as a yes/no question is a good way to make sure everybody understand the situation. And when playing with children, it can be a usefull way to frame their action.
But you're righ is a bit cumbersome to do it each time. We are changing this part of the rules is the next version of the game.
It should be out in 1d6+1 month.