Where did I say anything about 'demanding' to know a real life person's downstairs makeup.? Real life that might come about eventually in a natural way as get to know someone. We don't have that with a fictional character so much. At least right now. Also I am trans-male myself so please don't treat me like I don't know anything about triggers for dysphoria. In fact I meantioned that in my post.
Although I will admit I have limited knowledge for those non-binery gender. I try to be look at all sides though as best as I can, even though some can be difficult to understand, or I may missunderstand some things. Anyways I was just expressing what I understood.