Yeah this is honestly the worst part of this game (besides the hundreds of bugs every update) and why I keep finding myself uninstalling and reinstalling it. There is zero immersion because it's impossible to play as a submissive person. You can choose to be eager, which should imply submissive, but doesn't affect your submission. Or you can choose to be reluctant, which increases your submission, but absolutely is not what a submissive person would do. And you also cannot be submissive towards more than one person, which makes absolutely no sense in any universe.