Honnestly, I hate mind control ... for me it's a fate worse than death. And yes, this game completely went in that direction.
Now, is it bad to have that fetish? Well, the real question is, would you break mentally a woman so she would follow you like a dog in real life. If the answer is no, It's great. That mean you keep your fetish as what it is ... a fetish. (I mean I also have a fetish that would be inconvenient for girls irl, that's why I keep it as it is)