Thank you for all your thoughts! You address various points I deem quite relevant for HH myself.
I agree the stimulation model in HH could be more sophisticated, although that's not a high priority atm. But more to your point: I don't like to depict discomfort, and much less pain or harm, in my artworks about sexuality, so HH players will likely never get the freedom of that choice. My Haiku are not about pain, but only about the question of "how, and how much, pleasure?".
Now objectification, I trust you agree, is a core ...objective in BDSM culture, where Subs routinely enjoy turning themselves into the willing play-things of their Dom partners, so we are really only talking about the consent part, correct?
I am considering to have HH disclaimers feature statements addressing these topics.For more detailed discussion I wanna invite you to join the HH discord .