this was absolutely incredible, as another trans asian (though not transfemme) i would love to talk to you more about this (i also submitted a decker project!!) i think following the tradition of memoir and mixing in radical (and necessary) social critique in with personal experience of gender and informing how that shapes your experience of gender
and things like "being a boy publicly, but being a girl online" really rang true for me, because i'm seen as a woman (?) ("but wrong") irl but am an agender man online where it feels True.
if you're interested in talking more about being trans and asian, pls hmu @ swanchime on discord if you have it!!