Yeah, ant-girls are good. It's up there for my favorite exotic race, with moths and stuff. Though I think the kitsune path is nicest to play through, cause the ant-girl paths are all bittersweet, either leaving the other ant-girls behind or leaving your friends behind.
I don't wish to spoil too much, but I think that's mostly a feature of the kitsune path not being done. The work is about transformation, becoming something or someone else. Change isn't necessarily bad, but you can never be everything to everyone. I hope you have a good year. Here's hoping I get it together writing wise this year.