In normal circumstances it would be a bigger deal. But a random bastard has appeared and is quite effective. His meddling basically made it unbearable which sped up things. But yes, in any other situation it would be different. For the virgin status I agree. But I had to make a descision in this case to put gameplay over realism since it is a main stat (it is crucial to your path) and because you can skip the nanobots leaving you unable to see the stat makes it a problem.
The last question got me a bit confused. If you are on the ntr path with her willpower 0 and you manage to keep her affection high. You will be able to make decisions that puts you on the ntrs path. Don't know if that is what you meant?
Thanks for the feedback,
Appreciate you :-)