This fits a lot of my feelings growing up, too. Plus sized clothes are a little bit better these days, but still not great. Anything with good stuff is waaaaayyyy too expensive.
It REALLY is!!!! One of my daydreams is to head to Goodwill and check stuff out, but I'm quite sure that if I tried that now, nothing in the women's section would fit 🤣
There are lots of cool specifically-for-trans-women clothing shops online but yeah, they are SUPER pricy...