No to everything!
You won't be able to disable anything, you can only avoid stuff or decide to not unlock the events in the first place.
Technically there is a non-ntr route (that will eventually have its own ending) but it doesn't offer much content except some more cute moments.
Last Last question
Considering the fact that Luna and Anon's videogame avatars are just themselves in real life, Would it be like this for the "Real" versions of any anthro/futa/femboy characters as well? Maybe monsters like orcs could be an equivalent like a boar/pig man? Also will anthros have "Anatomically accurate" penises?