On Discord, you have the option to send a direct message, which means only you and I can see the conversation.
yeah I know you can talk privately on discord but how do I befriend you there?
because I don't know about you, but I don't want to share my the way to send friend requests on just a public form like this, I already get a lot of randomly will try to sell me something or make me click links to fake websites stuff like that
if there is no other way? I can do it because I already have it so people can't just send random messages.
I have to be friends with someone for them to write to me so I would presumably only get a lot of random friend requests so I can do that if that's what is needed