took a long time but I got them all
quick guide
for the top one focus on food and fabric, no armor, no meat, use toys, and interact.
for the top 2nd from the top you want a mix of everything, leaning more toward happiness and with more fruit and toys used.
for the 2nd from the bottom it's similar to the above but don't interact and use medicine instead of toys, additionally lean more toward meat and less toward happiness
for the bottom, basically scavenge and feed only meat, medicine, and armor, avoid everything else at all costs
I won't give names but I figured it took me a long enough time for me to do it all so I figured I'd help everyone else. The dev is welcome to delete this but more ways to identify each path and maybe hints on how to get toward them might help more.