This is not the answer to my question. Fuck steam. They bleed out indies.
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Did not age well.. https://nogravitygames.itch.io/connection-haunted
I chose to move the game to steam. I don't feel bled out at all, and I'm extremely grateful for all the different services steam has to offer. Would gladly give 30% to steam to handle all the services, refunds etc.
Having to only publish one place when I updated the game is great for me...and I think that the steam version is the best experience because you get cloud save, achievements, etc.