for some reason everything passed update 20.05.09 will not show up. I get an error that I don't have the photo; for example when I try to open the new skilltree i get the error that i don't have the arrow. And with all the sex scenes the character just disappears and afterwards i can't play anything saying i don't have the picture.
If you're missing files, then try to download the full game again, and move the save files from your old game into the save folder of the new game download.
Did you perhaps use "Update files" but skipped updates? Update files only have the files from one update to the next. When you missed more than one update and use them, you miss the files of previous updates.